Reading as recovery and resistance
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September 2026
August 2026
Kendzior, Sarah
There is no satisfaction in saying I told you so during a crisis. All that means is that people who could’ve mitigated disaster chose not to do so, and people got hurt. It means the old warning has expired and been replaced with another one even more grim due to the avoidance of the initial prediction.
Kendzior, Sarah
This is the thing about creativity that’s rarely acknowledged: most people don’t actually like it… They crave the success of the result, but shun the process that produces it. The experimentation that may yield failure. The rejection of social norms that leads to rejection of the artist herself.
Graeber, David & Wengrow, David
Security takes many forms. There is the security of knowing one has a statistically smaller chance of getting shot with an arrow. And then there is the security of knowing there are people in the world who will care deeply if one is.
Mitchell, Claire & Venditozzi, Zoe
July 2026
Dubb, Sarah
You still deserved better, honey. He was doing his best, and you still deserved better.
Kendzior, Sarah
To warn of a threat and be dismissed is to have your own worth questioned, along with the worth of all you strive to keep safe.
Bishop, Kelly
You know those rare people you’re introduced to for the first time, and instead of saying “Nice to meet you” you’re tempted to say “There you are!” — The Third Gilmore Girl: Kelly Bishop
June 2026
Wood Jr., Roy
We are a country founded on religious principles of forgiveness and turning the other cheek, yet every piece of infrastructure is set up to remind you of and hold you accountable for your past mistakes.
May 2026
Hatmaker, Jen
I have barely even kissed a boy. I feel wildly embarrassed but can’t figure out why. All of a sudden, I am hyperaware of my body and burning with shame; did that first kiss with Gary Whipple in seventh grade cost me a petal?
Thompson, Shailee
If watching rom-coms has taught me anything, it’s that you don’t dim yourself for fear of shining too bright... And if watching slashers has taught me anything, it’s that you take chances whenever you can.
Ryan, Kennedy
There are women like me who are mothering in our own ways, but have never carried a child or been a parent. We’re teachers and mentors and social workers and godmothers. We find ways to pour love into the world, to shape the world for good without bearing a child.
April 2026
Bohannon, Cat
With eusocial species, not every individual has a chance to reproduce, but a caste of asexual members is useful, even essential, to the group’s success, most typically by helping care for the young.
Schwartz, Joanna
March 2026
Pulley, Natasha
When someone is that calm in a crisis, either they don’t know what’s happening, or you don’t.
Cullins, Ashley
Because you’re not afraid of being alone, right? You’re afraid you’re not alone. If you’re alone, nothing can happen to you. If there is another person who wishes you harm…that’s truly scary, especially when it’s someone you know and trust.
Spade, Dean
February 2026
Johnson, Eleanor
Spade, Dean
Harris, Kamala
Throughout my career I’ve maintained that people in positions of power must be required to ask of themselves: Who am I not hearing from? Then make it their business to seek those folks out.
Goodall, Jane
Hope is often misunderstood. People tend to think that it is simply passive wishful thinking: I hope something will happen but I’m not going to do anything about it. This is indeed the opposite of real hope, which requires action and engagement.
Chemaly, Soraya
January 2026
Bamford, Maria
Tang, Karen
December 2025
Tyson, Timothy
I took the privacy of my own grief and turned it into a public issue, a political issue, one which set in motion the dynamic force that ultimately led to a generation of social and legal progress for this country.
Wynn-Williams, Sara
November 2025
Lewis, Michael
Raymond, Edwin
El Akkad, Omar
Kimble, Megan
October 2025
Stanley, Jason
Stanley, Jason
Brooks, David
September 2025
Kelly, Kim
Morris, Haley
Higginbotham, Adam
August 2025
July 2025
Carter Jackson, Kellie
Khan-Cullors, Patrisse
Blackstock, Uché
And that’s when it hit me. The people in institutional power, mostly older white men, didn’t really expect me to do anything in my new role. They wanted a figurehead; they didn’t expect me to change anything.
June 2025
Haidt, Jonathan
Smith, Kaylie
He was in the reflection of her hot chocolate at every café. In the heat of every fire. In the faces of the few lovers she’d had since he shattered her heart to pieces.
May 2025
Ephron, Nora
April 2025
Burke, Tarana
February 2025
Alexander, Michelle
Cullen, Dave
They had looked beyond that powerless afternoon determined they had been made powerless their entire childhood by gunmen who could strike at any moment. They set their sights on that larger problem and reclaimed their power by working to protect 74 million American kids… They didn’t start this as a form of therapy, but Dr. Lye said they could hardly have designed a better treatment plan.
Ford, Christine Blasey
As I budgeted out what we could afford, I thought how impossible this would be for so many other survivors. If you don’t have the resources, how do you even leave an unsafe situation? If I, with all my privileges, could barely afford to speak out, what did that mean for so many other women?
Gunter, Jen
Messenger, Tony
January 2025
Abrams, Stacey
Rothstein, Richard
Montgomery, Sy
If I have a soul—and I think I do—an octopus has a soul, too.
McCammon, Sarah
Lenz, Bethany Joy
Pishko, Jessica
Duhigg, Charles
Gregory, Amanda Ann
Hendrix, Grady
In every book we read, no one ever thought anything bad was happening until it was too late.
Jackson, Sarah J.
This rapport building between members of the network does important discursive community-building work, shaping cultural solidarity and providing important emotional and psychological support.
Moore, EbonyJanice
Napolitano, Ann
She carried a book at all times—to read, yes, but also as a handy shield for when she wanted to deflect the attention of other people.
Roach, Mary
Every now and then in life, a compliment is tucked so seamlessly into a insult that it’s impossible to know how to react.
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